Back in 2022 I was a last minute sub for Alexs volleyball team. We didnt have a lot of time to talk that day, but his jokes landed and he was pretty good at volleyball.
Anytime I was back on those courts, he was the face I looked for. I ran into him again a week later at the same place.

As we were leaving he got my number.
I’ll never forget his first text, “Alex Daresh” I remember not knowing how to pronounce his last name.

We got drinks three days later at my favorite place. We talked about our time in Austin, what weather apps we use, and how much I hated baseball. It was my favorite day.


After a few days of texting, he invited me to play in a 2s volleyball tournament. After finishing second, while everyone was packing up around us, we sat on the bleachers and talked until the park was empty and the lights had turned off.


I was so impressed with this intelligent, hilarious man, who not an hour earlier I had watched put chewed gum straight into his shorts pocket.


At 3 am, when we finally decided to leave, he kissed me for the first time.
Maybe a minute later as I was starting my car, he called me and asked if he could see me again and we planned our first date. I think we saw each other every day after that.

To the finder of my cell phone, our daughter’s second favorite person, and the dishwasher-loading-manager, I cant wait to marry you.

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